Self-Filing Guide

Can You Get Divorced Without a Lawyer?

Yes! In California, you have the legal right to represent yourself. For simple uncontested divorces, most couples don't need expensive lawyers.

When You Can Divorce Without a Lawyer

Self-representation works best when your situation is straightforward:

You CAN file without a lawyer if:

  • You and your spouse agree on all major issues
  • You have no minor children, OR agree on custody
  • You have no significant property disputes
  • Neither spouse owns a business
  • No domestic violence is involved
  • You're both willing to cooperate

Consider a lawyer if:

  • Your spouse is uncooperative or hostile
  • Complex assets (retirement, stock options, real estate)
  • Custody is heavily disputed
  • There's a history of domestic violence
  • One spouse owns a business
  • High-value debts need division

How to File for Divorce Without a Lawyer

1

Gather Your Information

Basic details about you, your spouse, your marriage, and any shared property or children.

15-30 minutes
2

Complete the Required Forms

California requires 10+ Judicial Council forms: FL-100, FL-110, FL-115, FL-120, FL-141, FL-142, FL-150, FL-170, FL-180, and more.

4-10+ hours (or 15 min with DivorceBuddy)
3

File with the Court

Submit your forms to your county's Superior Court clerk and pay the filing fee ($435-450).

1-2 hours
4

Serve Your Spouse

Your spouse must be officially notified. They can sign an acknowledgment or be served by a third party.

Varies
5

Wait for Response Period

Your spouse has 30 days to respond. After 6 months, your divorce can be finalized.

6+ months (California law)

Forms You'll Need

California divorce requires specific Judicial Council forms. Here's what DivorceBuddy prepares for you:

FL-100Petition for Dissolution

Main form that starts your divorce

FL-110Summons (Family Law)

Official notice to your spouse

FL-115Proof of Service

Proves spouse was notified

FL-120Response to Petition

For spouse to respond

FL-141Declaration of Disclosure

Financial disclosure cover

FL-142Schedule of Assets/Debts

Property and debt division

FL-150Income and Expense

Financial declaration

FL-165Request to Enter Default

If spouse doesn't respond

FL-170Declaration for Default

Statement for judgment

FL-180Judgment

Final divorce document

FAM-020Case Cover Sheet

Required for LA County

Common Challenges When Filing Alone

Form Errors

One wrong checkbox can get your filing rejected

DivorceBuddy validates every field before you file

Legal Terminology

Forms use confusing legal jargon

Our chat explains everything in plain English

Missing Deadlines

Strict timelines for responses and filings

We track your timeline and send reminders

Incomplete Filings

Courts reject incomplete packets

DivorceBuddy ensures all required forms are included

Why DivorceBuddy is Better Than DIY

AI-Guided Questions

Answer simple questions in a conversation, not confusing legal forms

Error Prevention

Our system catches mistakes before they become rejections

All Forms Included

Every California Judicial Council form you need, properly filled out

Spanish Support

Full bilingual support for English and Spanish speakers

Step-by-Step Guidance

Know exactly what to do next at every stage

Affordable Price

Just $149 for complete document preparation

Ready to Start Your Divorce?

Get your California divorce documents prepared in minutes. No lawyers needed for simple cases.